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raewyn hamilton 2010-07-29 18:07:13	How to attract mature women- "Huh? is this guy right?" Help feedback please on this - I have just discovered this article where this guy details in '5 easy steps' - How to attract Older Mature women - Can others read this as I have put it on the website http://www.wisanow.co.nz/FEELING+GOOD+LOOKING+GREAT/Midlife+News/How+to+Attract+Older+Mature+Women+in+5+Easy+Steps.html and tell me if what he says is right. If you are out there and dating, would these steps work for you. Personally, I don't like red roses and think the article is a bit simplistic - thoughts anyone!!
francis 2010-07-30 15:39:32	how to attract women Read the article and sorry think it's a load of old cobblers. I want a man who can make me laugh and does something for my libido, not some twit who thinks he has to dress smartly and be humble. As for the roses, I won't comment. Is this man for real?
Nicky 2010-08-05 11:52:56	Dating Older Women I am an older woman married to a man 10 years younger than me. In the 12 years we have been together he has bought me roses once and the last thing he is would be humble! He is intelligent with an lightning fast sense of humour - but you know what he is still a man. With all those other "male" traits. And over the years (my first husband was ten years older than me) I have come to realise that there is NO recipe - and it has NOTHING to do with age either. It's just be yourself and you will be happy if the man (the good and the bad) loves you and visa versa!
Heather Talbott 2010-08-07 16:14:24	Men! I was put off him in the first sentence with words like "project" and "steps" in regard to setting out to attract an older woman - not a particular older woman, just an attractive older woman. But that aside, because he obviously wouldn't be putting it like that to the woman, I think he's a cliche. Step 1 - Humble is good, but an arrogant person trying to appear humble comes across as trying too hard. Besides...although I have warned myself many time I always ended up with an arrogant sod, and the humble guys are my friends. This would be a good thing to change in a future relationship, but I think that humble doesn't initially attract. Step 2 - Dress like a gent. I like a guy who takes care of his appearance but I am suspicious of guys who wear bling and soft leather shoes! Kerre Woodham goes so far as to say she likes her men rough and unconcerned. Step 3 - Red roses? Nice try, but cliche. It's much sexier if a guy has enjoyed your company on a first flower-free date, and then sends you flowers at work during the week. Sigh. Step 4 - Honesty. Better than pretense, but I suspect we're all a smidgen dishonest early on in a relationship, and then own up later and laugh about it. Step 5 - Straightforward communication - What's that? Initially, I like a guy to have a sense of humour, be interesting, respect my opinions enough to listen to what I have to say. I like to feel relaxed in each other's company and of course there should be a physical attraction, although a lot of people say they didn't have this on the first meeting. While confidence is attractive, the need to be in control is not.

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