Empty Nest or Packed to the Rafters Survey Results
Thanks so much to everyone who completed our survey. The full results are below but here is a brief synopsis.
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47% said their relationship with their child had stayed the same by living together
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72% said their shopping habits and availability of discretionary income was affected by their child living with them
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67% of children returned home for economic reasons
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54% said their adult child had a job but could not afford living expenses
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51% said they charge under $100 a month board
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71% said there was no limit to how long they could stay
Results in Full
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Do you have an adult child who has returned home to live with you? |
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What age are your adult children who live with you? |
18 – 21
22 – 25
26 – 30
30+ |
37%
26%
17%
20% |
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How has your relationship changed by living together? |
Somewhat Strained
Stayed the same
Somewhat Improved
Greatly Improved |
19%
47%
19%
15% |
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How long do you anticipate your adult child staying with you? |
0 – 1 month
1 – 6 months
6 – 12 months
More than a year |
7%
34%
17%
42% |
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If your child stays longer than you anticipate – |
This would be unacceptable
This would be okay
This would make me happy |
21%
72%
7% |
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What areas of your life are affected because your adult child lives with you? (please select all that apply) |
Availability of discretionary income
Shopping Habits
Marriage/Relationship
Dining Out
Travel Plans
Relationship with other Children ( not living with you) |
34%
38%
9%
6%
8%
5% |
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Do you have agreements/rules regarding the following? |
Timeframe for when they need to move out
Doing household chores, cooking needs
Curfew
Contributing to household expenses
Having Guests Over
Choice and loudness of music
Drugs and Alcohol usage
Pets and Pet care, if applicable
Child care for the adult’s child if applicable
Levels of courtesy and respect
Transportation/car borrowing
Religious and other family practices |
1%
17%
0.5%
18%
8%
9%
10%
6%
1%
18%
10%
1% |
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Did you return home to live with your parents? |
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Do other generations live with you? |
Yes
Yes Grandchildren
No |
5%
8%
87% |
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Do you think living in an intergenerational household makes it harder or easier to achieve personal goals? |
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Why did your adult child return home? |
Illness or non financial crisis
Economic
Emotional support for you
Emotional support for them |
14%
67%
4%
15% |
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If economic please select the reason |
Has a job, can’t afford living expenses
Is at University
Lost their job
Graduated from University no job |
54%
26%
17%
3% |
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If you charge board how much? |
Nothing
Under $100 per month
Under $250 per month
Under $500 per month
Under $$750 per month |
19%
32%
21%
26%
2% |
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Is there a limit to how long they can stay? |
No
1 month
3 months
6 months
2 years
3 years |
85%
6%
2%
5%
1%
1% |
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Do you worry about enabling your child? |