Addicted to Living: Midlife at its Best - by Geraldine
The best thing about creating this website with my best friend, Rae, is that it has given me a forum to share my love of books, movies, cooking and travel. As I travel through midlife and now the family are living independent lives, I have time to indulge myself and immerse myself in my passions and hobbies. We baby boomers have broken all the rules; we burned our bras, embraced womens lib, became superwomen and forgot the most important thing along the way - to look after ourselves. So now is the time for us to read those books, see those movies, indulge our love of travel, spend time in the kitchen, walk the New York marathon or knit kitten blankets for the RSPCA, if that's what we want to do.
If I read a book, see a movie, try a new recipe, see a fun video or website, I will share it with you and hope you get as much out of it as I do.
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Addicted to Living -
Welcome to the latest edition of
Addicted to Living. I hope you will enjoy seeing our best picks from the
Cannes Film Festival 2010, as well as my favourite
Winter Lentil Soup and an easy peasy
Apple Cake which my sister-in-law recently brought to a family dinner. It was devoured in an instant by the men in the family, who admitted it was better than anything their mothers had served up! And so easy to make with canned apples and bought pastry! She had me fooled. You might enjoy the article on
The Pill turns 50, how to wear those comfortable
long cardigans or even watch the
Best of Ted.com showing the only talk ever recorded by
Victor Frankl. Then for a little light reading
Joanna Trollop's latest book,
The Other Family, is reviewed.
The Best of Cannes
Juliette Binoche won best actress for her role in the romantic drama
Certified Copy.
Uncle Boonmee can recall his past lives, is a llittle obscure for me but will appeal to cinophiles, while
Russell Crowe makes an interesting
Robin Hood.
Michael Douglas is back in
Money Never Sleeps, the sequel to
Wall Street.
Of Gods and Men looks interesting, as does
The Tree with
Charlotte Gainsbourg and of course the
Stones documentary
The Stones in Exile. Mick Jagger admitted in an interview they were "stupid" in 1971.
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The Pill: woman's best friend?
The contraceptive pill is 50 years old – but as controversial as ever.
Julia Llewellyn Smith charts its devastating impact on sex and family life.
Raquel Welch, the actress who

played a bikini-clad cave woman and had three husbands, last week blamed the contraceptive pill for the decline of marriage. On the Pill’s 50th birthday,
Welch, 69, declared that the widespread use of oral contraception had led to epidemic promiscuity. Read about how
The Pill changed our lives
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How to wear a long cardigan
The humble cardigan has come a long way since it was named after the seventh Earl of Cardigan, General James Thomas Brudenell in the mid-1800s. Now more high-end than hand-me-down, the long cardigan even masquerades as a coat.
Why you need it now. Cosy up in a long cardigan to combat the oncoming winter chills without looking lazy or sloppy. This season's long cardis come with a finish that elevates their status from strictly casual to super-stylish.
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This week on Ted.com
Viktor Frankl - Why to believe in others
In this rare clip from 1972, legendary psychiatrist Viktor Frankl delivers a powerful message about the human search for meaning.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fD1512_XJEw
Julia Sweeney has "the Talk"
Despite her best efforts, comedian Julia Sweeney is forced to tell a little white lie when her 8-year-old begins learning about frog reproduction -- and starts to ask some very smart questions.
http://www.ted.com/talks/julia_sweeney_has_the_talk.html?utm_source=newsletter_weekly_2010-05-18&utm_campaign=newsletter_weekly&utm_medium=email
Eating In
I love this
Winter Lentil Soup recipe. It's so easy to make and is a wholesome meal on cold winter nights.
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The men in your life will love you to bake this easy
Apple Cake for them. Serve warm with lashings of cream or yoghurt if you prefer.
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A good read

Joanna Trollop's novels are easy to read and her characters are very real. I particularly love the way her characters tear each other apart emotionally while being very polite and very English. This latest novel,
The Other Family, is about Chrissie who always believed that Richie loved her, had loved her for all the 23 years they had been together, loved their three daughters and their happy existence, but what about Margaret, his first wife and her son Scott who never saw Richie?
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Recommended Reads - May
Wolf Hall by Hilary Mantel. 
What is it about hearty, heartless Henry VIII that, five centuries on, scriptwriters and novelists still buzz about him like wasps around jam? The fascination is not confined to Anne Boleyn's heaving bosom, whatever Philippa Gregory might have you think. Nor is it simply the glittering dramatic possibilities of period betrayal and bloodshed: those starched ruffs, that retinue of doomed wives.
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The Elegance of the Hedghog by Muriel Barbary.

A best seller in France and several other countries, this wonderful book belongs to a distinct subgenre: the accessible book that flatters readers with its intellectual veneer. The novel’s two narrators alternate chapters, but the book is dominated by Renée, a widowed concierge in her 50s who calls herself “short, ugly and plump,” a self-consciously stereotypical working-class nobody. She is also an autodidact -
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Movies to brave the cold for - May
A Single Man. A Love That Speaks Its Name: A College Professor’s Fateful Day.

The face of grief that the actor Colin Firth wears in “A Single Man” is crumpled and gray. There is little movement in the face initially: it’s a beautiful and gently furrowed mask, not yet old, despite the small brushstrokes of white at the temples. You might think that gravity alone was tugging at its mouth. But George, the middle-aged professor and single man of the title whom Mr. Firth plays with a magnificent depth of feeling, has had his heart broken, and the pieces are still falling.
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PlUS Interview with Tom Ford, Director.....
The Blind Side. Is every extraordinary true story worth adapting to film?

It seems as though we’ve heard everything before, especially when it comes to down-on-their-luck athletes defying the odds. Well, Michael Oher’s story is pretty much just that, so the success of The Blind Side will rest in your hands. Shun it and you’ll be wishing there was a defensive end ready to take advantage of your blind side and put you out of your misery. But put your skepticism aside, embrace The Blind Side and you’ll be in for a feel-good time.
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Winter comfort food - May
Italian Meatballs with Tagliatelli - a classic dish that the whole family will love...
70 tried and recommended recipes are available in the wisanow e-book recipe book which you can buy by for $25.00. Click here for a preview...
Beyond two minute noodles - the art of cooking for one
When most week nights include cooking for other people, eating solo now and then becomes a treat - the chance to curl up on the couch with toasted cheese

and relish the time freed up by not peeling onions or swabbing kitchen benches. But what if dinner for one is a regular thing?
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10 Places to feel young again
Mo
nte Carlo - dust off your tux,
Route 66 - search for freedom on the open highway,
Rishikesh India - for a spiritual epiphany
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An inspiring Website
http://www.ted.com/ Riveting talks by remarkable people, free to the world
Addicted to Living - April 2010
Recommended Reads
Raquel - Beyond the Cleavage by Raquel Welch. An icon of glamour and sex appeal,
Welch opens up about her internal struggles to age gracefully in Hollywood, to make peace with the uncomfortable mantle of "sex symbol," and face the challenges of menopause--all while maintaining a successful acting career.
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Cutting for Stone by Abraham Verghese. Marion and Shiva Stone, born in a mission hospital in Ethiopia in the 1950s, are twin sons of an illicit union between an Indian nun and British doctor. Bound by birth but with widely different temperaments they grow up together, in a country on the brink of revolution, until a betrayal splits them apart.
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Movies to brave the cold for
Mao's Last Dancer. Chinese ballet star Li Cunxin, whose 1981 defection made international headlines, gets spotty biopic treatment in "Mao's Last Dancer." Leaning heavily on rural childhood flashbacks and boot camp-like training as a teenager in Beijing, the story lights up when
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Leaving. Fresh from her remarkable, award-winning role in last year's
Il y a longtemps que je t'aime (
I loved you so long)
Kristin Scott Thomas returns to the screenopposite the smouldering Catalan actor Sergi Lopez in Catherine Corsini's gripping tale of a mid-life affair in southern France.
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Winter comfort food
Oven-baked risotto with prosciutto and fontina
Cooking risotto has never been easier than this! If you can’t obtain fontina*, substitute with gouda or gruyere.
This recipe and another 70 tried and recommended recipes are available in the wisanow e-book recipe book which you can buy by for $25.00. Click here for a preview...
Wild Mushroom Soup
There is nothing like a yummy soup served with fresh bread on cold winter nights and the flavour of this soup is superb. Only takes 45 minutes to cook and serves 4.
For adrenalin junkies
Scariest travel adventures and heartpounding experiences The 2010 daredevil list.
Skywalk at the Grand Canyon,
White Water Rafting the Zambezi more....
A tricky octopus
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x5DyBkYKqnM
octopus steals my video camera and swims off with it (while it's Recording)
while trying to get video of a wild octopus, it suddenly dashed towards me and rips my shiny new camera from out of my hands, then swims off, all while the camera is recording! he swam away very quickly like a naughty shoplifter. ...
And now for us Coffee Addicts
Thou shalt join the coffee cult. On the True Path ... part of the Italian ritual is that coffee should be downed in one, while standing.
Don't want to be taken for a tourist? Then don't be heard ordering a latte after lunch, writes Lee Marshall.
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